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What is Goth?
This is probably the hardest question any goth could try and answer, one may as well ask ‘what is society?’ as it has so many facets it defies any definitive explanation.
Goth in its simplest form, is a subculture. A group of people who feel comfortable within each others company. There is no specific thing that defines what you need to do or be to fit into the goth scene (except of course the implied black clothing). People in the goth scene all have
different musical tastes, follow different religions, have different occupations, hobbies, and fashion sense.
Why do people become goths?
Most goths become goths because they have been spurned by ‘normal’ society because the way they want to live their lives does not fit in with how most people are told to live theirs. Goths are free thinkers, people who do not accept the moral rules of society because they’re told ‘This is just how it is’ or ‘This is what God says!’. Rather goths tend to listen to what you have to say, and make up their own mind. This kind of free thinking and rejection of dogma earns only rejection in todays society.
However because of this rejection from ‘normal’ society, goths have banded together to associate with other free thinkers. This has a beneficial effect on both the individual and society as a whole. For the individual they have a sense of belonging, and friends they can associate with. For society it removes one more misfit filled with rage from society’s streets.
This of course is not the case for all goths. Many goths today are goths for a variety of other reasons. They like the music, or the clubs are better, they have goth friends and joined in with them, or they just like staying up late nights and goths are the only ones awake to talk to.

The gothic stereotype
Many stereotypes of goths exist these days. It seems everyone has their own way to define ‘what is goth’. From the stereotypes based on clothing to music right up to the stereotypes of all goths being satanists or part of some kind of cult. Categorically, all of these are false.
The goth scene is just as widely varied as society in general. There are many different professions represented in the scene, from highly skilled professionals like doctors and lawyers, to tradesman, to technically minded people to clerical workers. Many different musical tastes exist (and not all of them goth, there is a HUGE 80’s following in the goth scene for some reason). The fashion varies vastly from goth to goth from the traditional flowing victorian style garments to the buckled and studded style regalia (also called industrial style, which is often closely related with goths, and have come to an understanding of co-existance, if uneasily at times).
How do I get into goth?
Goths tend to be accepting and open minded. Just turn up to a club or event wearing all black and your already in the goth scene. You’ll pick it up as you go along (just a hint though, lay off the vampire comments!).
The gothic sense of humour is highly developed, and often leans toward the satirical. Quietly laughing at the more idiotic and less tolerant factions of society that seem to think yelling out of cars at us makes them cooler. Goths have learned to laugh at themselves and see society in a much different light. They have had to, and it is a trait most would not give up.
Goths have for the most part (not unanimously of course, but mostly) dropped all forms of prejudice. Noone is afraid within the goth scene to come out as being gay, and noone has to hide their religion for fear of scorn from their peers or zealots wanting to convert them from the arms of Satan. In fact because of these facts (and the general lack of prejudice) the goth scene has a large proportion of gays/bisexuals, and followers of non-mainstream religions and views. This of course is the most important aspect of gothdom, and why most goths became goths in the first place, tolerance.
But they think weird!
Ah, but this is the beauty of goths. Most subjects that are taboo in ‘normal’ society are freely discussed and debated about. Death, religion, magick, mysticism, and many other topics that are only roached carefully outside of the gothic community. Most goths have realised that fear is only a reaction instilled in us by dogmatic propaganda, and once you realise there is nothing to fear from the topic, whats to stop you discussing it?
Goths often revel in the fear given to them by society as a whole. Often the behavior exhibited by society to them based on society’s perception of them from stereotypes, rumour, etc are a constant source of entertainment. Of course, most of the rumours are totally unfounded, goths are people like everyone else, however when you already have a reputation, going for the shock factor is often far too tempting to see how much society at large is willing to believe (or deduce) with only a little encouragement.
This does not totally fall away once you get inside the scene unfortunately, and goths are all too often tempted to try for the shock factor within the scene (which turns out more tacky than shocking). Goths when you get down to it can be a rather pretentious bunch, trying for those extra ‘goth points’ on the gothier than thou scale, but it adds to the enjoyment.
History of Goth
Modern goth (ignoring where the name itself originally comes from) started in the early 80’s as part of the punk subculture (which is itself was a rejection of most societal values, and anything considered part of the ‘norm’). The phrase was coined by the band manager of Joy Division, Anthony H. Wilson, who described the band as ‘Gothic compared with the pop mainstream’. The term stuck, and as punk eventually died, Goth survived and became its own subculture. The punk clothing and hairstyles mellowed, and the core ‘rejection of society’ attitude alone lived on in the gothic subculture. Over time this itself has been modified to be more of a ‘no more blind acceptance of society’s values’ as opposed to rejection because it was there to be rejected (and because you could get away with it!).
Movies such as The Crow, and bands such as the Bauhaus helped establish the gothic image as dark, depressing, and even evil. As more and more ‘dark’ movies came out, numbers in the gothic subculture expanded, and there is now a gothic community in almost every major city around the world, and quite a number of towns have their own representative contingent. Nowdays there are more goth bands around than ever, and it has turned from an 80’s phenomenon into a 90’s way of life for many people. Unlike the punk subculture that it spawned from, there even exists a class of mature goths, still following the scene around even past their 20’s and into their 30’s and beyond.

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Thank you for putting this up because know i will be able to tell people more clearly what a goth is and if you want to you can go to darkminds4all.blogspot.com to see my blogs
Jacob: u are the most welcome.. It is my job to know what it is…
Why not all of you miserable beings just die instead of having a darker mind?
Ever know how it’s like to be alive again after death? Your skull feels broken, your breath feels cold yet burning on your throat. You get paranoid upon everything you’ve seen. You get things around you working in the way you wanted. How’s that for a change
hey i whant to become a goth but my mum thinks they get into drugs and shit how can i tell her that thats not true
kind of funny how things go sometimes … I’ve been blogging for quite awhile, and just recently I’ve been kind of trying to get exposure for my blog. Not really a big deal to me, but still trying a little anyway. In the process I’ve been getting reviews on my site by various people. A couple of days ago I realized that I have been getting exposure to people that can’t really relate to the things I say. So, a couple of days ago I was thinking about that, and I tried to put my finger on who exactly I would like to read my blog …
and that made me start thinking about something beyond the blog, like, who the hell am I anyway, and where do I fit in? I’ve considered calling myself Goth for quite awhile, but there was always that question. What Is Goth? Or, more specifically, can I call myself that? So I did a search on Google, and I ended up here … just wanted to say, Thank You
Homg thank you SOOOOOOOOO much for posting this!
you have NO idea how relieved I am to see this.
my friends and I have been trying to define Goth for years,
but its a culture, and its almost too big for words!!! you defined it beautifully. ^_^
To everyone outta there, Thank you for coming into my blog thru Google or anywhere you happen to come in..
Till then, happy new year!
Yes Thank You for everything! I am not goth but I have always been fascinated with the culture.I am so glad you have answered these questions for me.I’ve had so many people tell me that goths worship satan and my being a believer in God, was against it at first.I then later was surfing the web and found this and I am trying to find other sites as this one.It has helped me so much.Thank YOU!!!
thanx this will really make people think about Gothics differently!

m from india in my society their is nothing like goth culture but i heard lots about it. know what i feel that this culture have also some mean and importance through this site i have learn lot. now i can explain athores in better way in actual what “goth” are!
thanks everything u said is true and this helped my mom relationship with me she hated the fact im goth but she under stands now so thanks
my mom hates that im goth she even told me ot chane or leave os i steped out the door and went to my friends house eventualy she exeted the fackt that im a goth and that is that
To the bloggers and readers, thank you very much for reading my blog. Glad that I did clarify to you all about Goth and its culture. It is true that I do not always wear BLACK although I have a lot of BLACK clothes at home.
But then who cares if I m GOTH?! I m GOTH then I m. No one can change me either.. So welcome to the Realm of Darkness! =)
hey u are right and here i thought no one but me actually newthis stuff
well thats right im goth..n i do NOT worship satan ¬¬…ppl get confuse with something different that they havent seen it before
n they just juge like they know about that n they don’t
we r goths normal ppl but original we thing different (spooky) not afraid to b different.. no demons lol ..thanks…by MEG.
yeah I’m goth and I just recently found out i was goth and i have know goth fiends and people and at my school are making fun a me because of it.
OH MY GOD, GOTHS !!!!
THEY R SCARY
THEY LOOK SCARY
WHY DO THEY HAVE TO BE ALL BLACK AND METAL AND PIERCING ??
WHY CANT THEY BE LIKE OTHERS?
IF YOU WNAT TO BE DIFFERENT, WHY ONLY OUTSIDE?
CHANGE THE PERSON YOU ARE
MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE